Is Ejaculating Killing You? Should you cum or hold it?
You are on the edge of cuming, you just want to get off, is it better for a man to hold it or cum?
When the average man ejaculates, he loses about one tablespoon of semen. According to scientific research, the nutritional value of of this amount of semen is equal to that of two pieces of New York steak, ten eggs, six oranges, and two lemons combined. That includes proteins, vitamins, minerals, amino acids, everything (as stated in Tao of Sexology).
The semen also contains a lot of vital energy, so an ejaculation also means a great loss of vital energy. This is demonstrated by the exhaustion felt by the man after ejaculation. Ejaculation is often called “coming”, but should be called “going”, because everything-the erection, vital energy, millions of live sperms, hormones, nutrients, even a little of the man’s personality goes away.
So do you really care? Or do you just want to get off? Release the pressure?
Have you ever tried “injaculation” where you can retain your vital energy vs. ejaculation where you loose it? Would you like to have multiple orgasms & last longer. Do you want to know more about this? Let me know & I will give you some secrets.
How much is too much & does age make a difference?
There is a formula for determining the length of time you need between ejaculating so that you won’t do harm to yourself. This time will allow your body to replenish lost vital energy & nutrients.
- Is your health & vitality more important, or do you just want to get off?
- Is “coming” your ultimate goal, the finish line?
- Do you feel strange with your lover if you don’t come?
- Is that your goal for her/him?
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This is a great blog, an article that really caught my attention - it certainly clears up why my man passes out after cumming. Check out my blog.
Hi. I think this is a very hard subject. No pun intended. At least for me, I just wanted to ‘get off’ when I was younger. Now, I have found out that I feel better when I wait for a period of time between events. Not that my sex drive has gone down but that I just know that a little moment of pleasure decreases my energy for a couple of days after. As for my wife, I have found many other ways to have fun and please her when I won’t be acheiving climax with her.
Doesn’t the modern medicine say that it better to ejaculate every couple of days or so to reduce the chances of prostate cancer? This Puma Ad clearly says so.
Hi Guessworker,
Great picture, I hadn’t seen this yet. LOL.
My experience with helping clients overcome cancer is that it is often linked to suppressed emotions or experiences. There is confusing energy going on inside the body that needs to be corrected. Some specialists believe that prostate & cancers of the breast or female parts is caused from a lack of circulation. So I can see why increasing circulation through sex would be beneficial. I commented to SP about the Million Dollar Point. Try this method of injaculating vs ejaculating so you can increase circulation while maintaining your vitality & milking the prostate.
The Tao which I shared above is ancient wisdom that dates centuries. Seems many of these holistic perspectives still hold true today, as in acupuncture, Chinese medicine, and other awareness compared to our western medical understandings. Good news, play to your hearts content. Check out the million dollar point & let me know if you can tell a difference.
Take care,
Jeanne Lupypciw UnlockBlocks.com
I come about 5-6 times a week. 6 days seems ridiculously long.
Hi SP,
Thanks for your comment, seems you have a healthy sex drive. The difference of injaculating vs. ejaculating is that you are not depleting your body when you cum. As discussed in blog Is Ejaculating Killing You, it is important to separate orgasm from ejaculation. Since they come within seconds of each other, men tend to combine these during puberty.
Have you heard of the Million Dollar Point? Story is it was named this in Ancient China because people would pay a million dollars to find out about this point that prolongs arousal & longevity. So here is the secret & I will give it to you for free, just write back & tell me how it feels once you practice.
The Million Dollar Point is an Acupressure Point called the Jen-Mo. It is located halfway between the anus & scrotum (balls, sack). By pressing this point, ejaculation can be reversed into an improved orgasm and the semen is recycled from the full prostate and reabsorbed into the blood. When pressed with a finger, this point feels like a small indentation or hole in that area.
Try this:
Bring yourself close to ejaculation then press on this point.
If you are with a partner, have them use 3 fingers over that area until you get a feel for where the point is.
By pressing here, the energy goes up into the body through the meridians which originate at this point, instead of going out of the body with regular ejaculation.
A slow milking of the prostate will occur instead of one blast.
It may feel strange at first, but once you practice it you should have increased pleasure, longevity, be able have multiple orgasms, and keep it up longer.
Let me know how this works for you & if you want to know more about how to increase your sexual pleasure.
Take care,
Jeanne Lupypciw UnlockBlocks.com
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Hi. Quite an insiteful article. I cum about twice per day. I guess I need to ease up a bit or a lot. Anyweay, thanks for the post.
Hi Coxone,
Thanks for your comment, glad you liked the post. No need to ease up, just recirculate. Check out my recent blog Million Dollar Sexual Point: Men-Do you know where yours is for details on how to do it.
Take care,
Jeanne Lupypciw UnlockBlocks.com
Is ejaculating killing me? Who cares? I can’t think of a better way to slowly commit suicide.