Have Hot Sex: Increase Passion by Changing Polarity

Hi George,
Thanks for your question. (See below) Your mind may be working overtime to find coincidences to support your beliefs. This is very common. We can usually find support for or against what we believe to prove our point. What I have found is that it is best to not force your position. You may see things very clearly, but if she is stuck on her interpretation there will be no changing her mind until it is time to change. You can continue your place of loving & supporting her as you have or change your direction to cause a change.

One way to shift from friend to lover is to play with polarity. Do you know how to do this?
Polarity is the magnetic attraction that we have for each other. In each person there is a masculine & feminine. We can amplify one of these to create a greater magnetic attraction between people.

For example: In the 1950’s we had the macho man & the subservient wife. This strong masculine with soft feminine created a magnetic attraction.
In the 1980’s there was the working woman with the man who nurtured his sensitive side. Again there was an opposite attraction.

When both people are in their masculine they neutralize each other creating friendship vs. sexual chemistry & passion. Friendship can be great, but if you want to amp up the passion you need to create polarity.

To achieve this, one person needs to shift to feminine (creative, nurturing, beauty, flow) while the other is masculine (focused, driven, decisive). Either sex can be masculine or feminine. For ease of example lets make the man masculine, woman feminine.

One way that relationships get neutralized is when the woman is working, solving problems, managing, focused. She comes home & continues that role by taking care of kids, cleaning house, paying bills, etc. She is focused on achieving results. The man comes home from work also in masculine mode. They are able to discuss results, be productive, mental. They could have sex but probably from the mental “lets do it” mode vs dynamic chemistry that passionately drives them to want to have sex.

To shift the polarity from neutralized to magnetic you need to create a difference between the sexes. If you want more passion you need to adjust your level to what your friends level is. For example: If she is problem solver, talking to you on friend masculine level you can either go more masculine or more feminine in yourself.

To get more masculine surround yourself with guys, be more goal oriented, give yourself permission to be a man, have a warrior mindset, think of ravishing her without being the “nice guy”. Rather than flowing with her be direct, tell her what you want, practice being grounded in yourself vs. needing her.

To shift into the feminine: be more playful, artistic, listen to music, dance, go with the flow.

For women, if you want to spark more passion in your relationship try this:
1. Have days or times set aside to be a lover. Give yourself permission to play for the night, Leave the work or responsibilities behind.

2. Start by changing your mindset when you get home from work.

3. Create a ritual to nurture yourself/do something you love.
An example: Turn on some sensual music, light candles, take a warm bubble bath with essential oils or rose petals, dance.
Another: Put on sexy lingerie or dress in something that makes you feel gorgeous. Find your flirty feminine side.

4. Take care of yourself, do what you love, what brings you joy. When you laugh & are fulfilled you will naturally create chemistry with the masculine.

George: You can experiment with these concepts without her knowing. Before you go see her, watch some football, hang with the guys, solve a problem, do something you love. See if she notices, if there is more attraction, but don’t tell her what you are doing.

In the end, she may just want friendship with you. You can be friends or move on at this point. Either way you will be more confident & know how to drive a woman wild with your new skill of creating polarity.

Let me know how it goes.
All the best,
Jeanne Lupypciw

Responding to George’s question below:
OK, here is something that I need HELP to interpreting, just checking if my mind is working overtime. I have a very good female friend and I have known her 18 years. We were both married have kids, etc. We drift in and out each other’s life but nothing ever serious. I always knew there was something special about us but I never paid attention to it until 6 months ago. Everything just fell into place for me but not for her. She still considers us FRIENDS although neither one of us are dating anyone seriously at this time. I have tried to take it to the next level but I have failed every time. I try to point out things to her and she just treats them as coincidences. Her actions, her smile, and body language say one thing and yet she tells me another. Ok now that I gave you a brief insight here is the latest incident that has me convinced and I am not sure how to make her understand.

Her car broke down, bad strut. She took the car to a mechanic and they gave her a FREE loaner, something that was never offered before. Afterwards she went shopping and by coincidence she found a simple piece of wall art, 3 harts with crosses through them. The art means nothing to her, she just liked it.

I was over her house this past weekend and soon as I saw the artwork I told her my interpretation, and she agreed with my interpretation, but she did not see a meaning to the art until I pointed it out to her. Driving home I started to think about the whole series of incidents and I started to interpret those as well, they all happened in 2 days. They clearly paint a picture for me but am not sure if I am interpreting this correctly or I am just biased because of the feelings I have for her.

My interpretation is as follows;
She got stopped in her tracks, I drive a caravan and she got a free loaner as a caravan, she hates caravan’s, but she likes the guy driving the caravan, as a friend that is, and the artwork is a blessed hart. Maybe I am just interpreting this to make it fit but there are many others that I can fill this blog with and all of them have similar interpretations. We both have feelings for each other and we are in sync 90% of the time but she tells me that I am like a brother to her but her actions, her smile, and body language say something completely different.

Can anyone else give me their thoughts on this?
Thank you for reading and your feedback.

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