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Sex Drive: How to Strengthen Yours

sex_drive_essential_oilsHave you lost your mojo? Does the thought of being sexual hold no interest for you?

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August 29, 2009 Posted by magicaljeanne | Sex | , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | No Comments Yet

Have Hot Sex: Increase Passion by Changing Polarity

Hi George,
Thanks for your question. (See below) Your mind may be working overtime to find coincidences to support your beliefs. This is very common. We can usually find support for or against what we believe to prove our point. What I have found is that it is best to not force your position. You may see things very clearly, but if she is stuck on her interpretation there will be no changing her mind until it is time to change. You can continue your place of loving & supporting her as you have or change your direction to cause a change.

One way to shift from friend to lover is to play with polarity. Do you know how to do this?
Polarity is the magnetic attraction that we have for each other. In each person there is a masculine & feminine. We can amplify one of these to create a greater magnetic attraction between people.

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For example: In the 1950’s we had the macho man & the subservient wife. This strong masculine with soft feminine created a magnetic attraction.
In the 1980’s there was the working woman with the man who nurtured his sensitive side. Again there was an opposite attraction.

When both people are in their masculine they neutralize each other creating friendship vs. sexual chemistry & passion. Friendship can be great, but if you want to amp up the passion you need to create polarity.

To achieve this, one person needs to shift to feminine (creative, nurturing, beauty, flow) while the other is masculine (focused, driven, decisive). Either sex can be masculine or feminine. For ease of example lets make the man masculine, woman feminine.

One way that relationships get neutralized is when the woman is working, solving problems, managing, focused. She comes home & continues that role by taking care of kids, cleaning house, paying bills, etc. She is focused on achieving results. The man comes home from work also in masculine mode. They are able to discuss results, be productive, mental. They could have sex but probably from the mental “lets do it” mode vs dynamic chemistry that passionately drives them to want to have sex.

To shift the polarity from neutralized to magnetic you need to create a difference between the sexes. If you want more passion you need to adjust your level to what your friends level is. For example: If she is problem solver, talking to you on friend masculine level you can either go more masculine or more feminine in yourself.

To get more masculine surround yourself with guys, be more goal oriented, give yourself permission to be a man, have a warrior mindset, think of ravishing her without being the “nice guy”. Rather than flowing with her be direct, tell her what you want, practice being grounded in yourself vs. needing her.

To shift into the feminine: be more playful, artistic, listen to music, dance, go with the flow.

For women, if you want to spark more passion in your relationship try this:
1. Have days or times set aside to be a lover. Give yourself permission to play for the night, Leave the work or responsibilities behind.

2. Start by changing your mindset when you get home from work.

3. Create a ritual to nurture yourself/do something you love.
An example: Turn on some sensual music, light candles, take a warm bubble bath with essential oils or rose petals, dance.
Another: Put on sexy lingerie or dress in something that makes you feel gorgeous. Find your flirty feminine side.

4. Take care of yourself, do what you love, what brings you joy. When you laugh & are fulfilled you will naturally create chemistry with the masculine.

George: You can experiment with these concepts without her knowing. Before you go see her, watch some football, hang with the guys, solve a problem, do something you love. See if she notices, if there is more attraction, but don’t tell her what you are doing.

In the end, she may just want friendship with you. You can be friends or move on at this point. Either way you will be more confident & know how to drive a woman wild with your new skill of creating polarity.

Let me know how it goes.
All the best,
Jeanne Lupypciw

Responding to George’s question below:
OK, here is something that I need HELP to interpreting, just checking if my mind is working overtime. I have a very good female friend and I have known her 18 years. We were both married have kids, etc. We drift in and out each other’s life but nothing ever serious. I always knew there was something special about us but I never paid attention to it until 6 months ago. Everything just fell into place for me but not for her. She still considers us FRIENDS although neither one of us are dating anyone seriously at this time. I have tried to take it to the next level but I have failed every time. I try to point out things to her and she just treats them as coincidences. Her actions, her smile, and body language say one thing and yet she tells me another. Ok now that I gave you a brief insight here is the latest incident that has me convinced and I am not sure how to make her understand.

Her car broke down, bad strut. She took the car to a mechanic and they gave her a FREE loaner, something that was never offered before. Afterwards she went shopping and by coincidence she found a simple piece of wall art, 3 harts with crosses through them. The art means nothing to her, she just liked it.

I was over her house this past weekend and soon as I saw the artwork I told her my interpretation, and she agreed with my interpretation, but she did not see a meaning to the art until I pointed it out to her. Driving home I started to think about the whole series of incidents and I started to interpret those as well, they all happened in 2 days. They clearly paint a picture for me but am not sure if I am interpreting this correctly or I am just biased because of the feelings I have for her.

My interpretation is as follows;
She got stopped in her tracks, I drive a caravan and she got a free loaner as a caravan, she hates caravan’s, but she likes the guy driving the caravan, as a friend that is, and the artwork is a blessed hart. Maybe I am just interpreting this to make it fit but there are many others that I can fill this blog with and all of them have similar interpretations. We both have feelings for each other and we are in sync 90% of the time but she tells me that I am like a brother to her but her actions, her smile, and body language say something completely different.

Can anyone else give me their thoughts on this?
Thank you for reading and your feedback.

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April 5, 2009 Posted by magicaljeanne | Love, Sex | , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | No Comments Yet

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Powerful Women Worldwide

Are you a powerful woman? What inspires you? For years I was surrounded by women who were considered powerful because of their job status or financial success. They would lie to you, backstab, judge & exclude to remain in control. Society taught us to fight for what we wanted in business. We needed to be smarter, more effective & dominate to be valuable in the man’s world. The masculine took over & our natural feminine power was suppressed.

My mom was sharing how important it was to have girlfriends in my life, yet I preferred men to the drama women created. One evening I was invited to a women’s gathering. As it began we were told that this was a circle intended to empower & inspire each other. We were not to gossip, backstab or voice negative beliefs. This group of 7 “sisters” showed me how to love women, to be supported & trust. When I moved to California, I continued to attract loving, powerful women into my life.

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February 2, 2009 Posted by magicaljeanne | Healing, Love, Sex | , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | No Comments Yet

How Much Love Can You Handle? Giving & Receiving Balance

How much love can you handle? Is your Giving & Receiving in Balance? Over the past month I have been challenged to receive more. Friends have shown where my giving is out of balance. I love to give & have made my career out of helping others, yet at their urging I am looking deeper at this need.

I have been asking the Universe to provide for me & feel blessed with many aspects of my life. In exploring this issue deeply, I realized that I had my hand on the give button & would only let a little receiving in before I had to give again. I was blocking my own channel of receiving.

As I looked into my feelings I realized that there is a sense of vulnerability that comes into play when you receive. As a child I needed to take care of others, to solve the problem, be the older sister. I was raised to have the right answer & fix things. This programming has continued through life without me being aware of it. This conditioning has caused me to be self sufficient & solve the problems. By receiving, even though I wanted to, I was going against my conditioning of knowing what to do. In a way it was admitting defeat to receive help. So not true, but my work with identifying subconscious programs & clearing them made me want to correct this in me.

What I saw is that it took me being broken, sick, massively in need before I would ask for help or receive it. Gratefully my friends showed me that when we don’t receive, it blocks others from their need to give. Since “receiving” this valuable information, I have been pleasantly surprised how much I have been offered in life.

I am working through relaxing my give button & allowing the gifts to come. I see where guilt arises around not feeling worthy of such kindness (even though I would provide the same gift without thinking twice about it), I see my need to reciprocate (tit for tat, needs to be equal) and releasing my fears to trust & be loved by others.

We have learned to give, to share, to be nice & not be selfish.

Check to see if your programming is out of balance.

  • Do you have problems receiving?
  • Do you give & not have it reciprocated?
  • Do you use this as a means of control?
  • By receiving from someone, are there strings attached? Do you feel obligated?

These are the start to begin receiving the gifts you desire.  If you would like help seeing your blindspots & clearing you subconscious blocks to receiving, please contact Jeanne Lupypciw at unlockblocks@mac.com for a consultation.

Thanks to the amazing people in my life who ask me to be selfish, to love myself more & to receive their love, you are truly an incredible gift to me.

Today I received this article from Kypris. I loved her suggestions on the receiving altar & will begin filling mine today. All the best to you, Jeanne Lupypciw

How Much Love Can You Handle by Kypris
It is the new year and as I often do, I think about what I want to bring in to my life for the year. This year I am focusing on receiving, in ALL areas of my life.

Have you ever noticed that it is easy to give, but oh, SO hard to receive?

Over the holidays, what do we focus on? We focus on what presents we are going to give to which person, and whether or not they will like it. And if we forget someone, we feel horrible. But do we focus on receiving gifts well? Do we make an effort to say thank you, and to show our appreciation for the gifts, and to put them to use right away in our life?

I have a receiving altar, AKA an abundance altar, in my bedroom. Whenever I receive ANYTHING, be it money, gifts, love notes, or a power object, I put it on my altar so that I can look at it several times each day and feel my gratitude for that gift in my heart. Then I make sure to start using that gift immediately if it is something I truly want to receive. And if it’s not? I pass it on to someone who is better suited to integrate that thing into their life.

This feels good to me, like I am finally starting to learn about the FLOW of abundance and love in life. Because let’s face it, gifts and money also have bits of LOVE attached to them. It is really hard to separate the two in my life. When someone gives me money for a session or an event or a book or video, it is because there is a bit of love in them for that thing that I’m providing. I get to feel that love when I receive the money into my life and send that love on when I spend the money. Do you see? Love and money are tied together.

Now I’m sure we’ll all agree that things have been challenging lately. We are in a bit of an economic downswirl, and I know it’s been frightening for many of us to feel the pinch. And fear can be so wonderful because it MOTIVATES. It has driven me to begin the process of making deep and lasting changes to my relationship with money, with love, and with sex.

I have talked about money and love, but what about SEX?

Here’s a newsflash for us all–take some time to let your partner give to you. Instead of focusing so much on how you can make them feel good, on how you can prove that you are the sexiest thing alive by showing off all your tantric positions and techniques, maybe just sit back and let yourself receive. Then give back. Then receive again. Let there be a give and take.

When I am receiving I have to be vulnerable, and that is scary. If I don’t respond with the appropriate orgasm or connection, if I am not able to receive because I am scared and I snap the energetic connection between us, then I fail. So when I have these feelings I just love myself more and say “open, open open—receive!”. If I am giving, then I can get stuck in wanting to control, in expecting a certain response from my partner, in goals. When this happens I take a breath, come back into this moment and trust Spirit to guide me to a better place than I could ever imagine.
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January 8, 2009 Posted by magicaljeanne | Energy, Healing, Love, Manifesting, Power, Sex | , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | 2 Comments

Live Beyond Ecstasy Video Gift

What an incredible year this has been. I bounced out of bed today with a sense of excitement, then found myself near tears with such gratitude for who I am & the life I have created. Each day is a miracle, some challenging & others extraordinary. I am so blessed to have amazing people in my life, thank you for all you are.

Now is a great time to review 2008, what you experienced, learned & are grateful for. The New Year brings opportunity to Live Beyond Ecstasy. My wish is that you achieve all you desire in life. My gift to you is this video series that guides you through the basic principles of the Live Beyond Ecstasy program. It’s a rough draft, but more important to impact lives through sharing than perfecting for now. My clients have had huge success since applying these principles, please share how this impacts your life too.
All the best,
Jeanne Lupypciw

December 20, 2008 Posted by magicaljeanne | Ecstasy, Energy, Healing, Sex | , , , , , , , , | No Comments Yet

Million Dollar Sexual Point:Men-Do you know where yours is?

Million Dollar Sexual Point: Men-Do you know where yours is located?

SP Commented on Is Ejaculating Killing You. Check out my Million Dollar Response.

I come about 5-6 times a week. 6 days seems ridiculously long.

Hi SP,
Thanks for your comment, seems you have a healthy sex drive. The difference of injaculating vs. ejaculating is that you are not depleting your body when you cum. As discussed in blog Is Ejaculating Killing You, it is important to separate orgasm from ejaculation. Since they come within seconds of each other, men tend to combine these during puberty.

Have you heard of the Million Dollar Point? Story is it was named this in Ancient China because people would pay a million dollars to find out about this point that prolongs arousal & longevity. So here is the secret & I will give it to you for free, just write back & tell me how it feels once you practice.

The Million Dollar Point is an Acupressure Point called the Jen-Mo. It is located halfway between the anus & scrotum (balls, sack). By pressing this point, ejaculation can be reversed into an improved orgasm and the semen is recycled from the full prostate and reabsorbed into the blood. When pressed with a finger, this point feels like a small indentation or hole in that area.

Try this:
Bring yourself close to ejaculation then press on this point.
If you are with a partner, have them use 3 fingers over that area until you get a feel for where the point is.
By pressing here, the energy goes up into the body through the meridians which originate at this point, instead of going out of the body with regular ejaculation.
A slow milking of the prostate will occur instead of one blast.
It may feel strange at first, but once you practice it, you should have increased pleasure, longevity, be able have multiple orgasms, and keep it up longer.

Let me know how this works for you & if you want to know more about how to increase your sexual pleasure.
Take care,
Jeanne Lupypciw UnlockBlocks.com

April 2, 2008 Posted by magicaljeanne | Sex | , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | 4 Comments

Man going limp, woman uptight; has this happened to you?

Man going limp, woman uptight; has this happened to you? A client was in a new relationship with a man she liked, but was having trouble when it came to sex. There was great chemistry between them, he was very kind & giving to her but when it came to sex they were running hot & cold. She came to me for advice & this is what we discovered.

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When he would become aggressive & passionate, her defenses would go up. She wanted to get to know him & build the excitement, but in the process was becoming too mental. Her defenses went up, so the more passionate he became the more defensive she became.

Flip side. She began to drop her defenses, would allow him to carry her to bed, start getting sexual & he would go limp, then fall asleep. Wine, stress & sleep deprivation were partially to blame, but when this happened several times she got concerned. Was she turning him on, did she screw it up or confuse him by wanting to wait? Was this the best it was going to be? She felt very confused, disappointed & started to consider ending the relationship. After the last time of trying, she laid beside him feeling a million miles apart, listened to him snoring then went home determined that was the end of the relationship.

So is there any hope here? Is the relationship over? Have you had these experiences? How did you handle it? What’s your advice?

Sexuality can be incredible & confusing. Obviously chemistry comes into play, we have all felt sexual attraction. Mental, physical, emotional, beliefs, etc also effect our feelings, but did you know that energy also can be involved with how you have sex?

Let me show you more about the energetic perspective of the story above. The two people were pushing the extremes. Often people will mirror the areas we need to work on in relationship.

  • She would put up defenses in his intensity, she would get turned on when he was asleep.
  • He would get passionate, push her limits then fall asleep when she would become attentive. He felt she made him calm, but would check out in the feminine energy.

From an energetic perspective, they were learning to access the extremes of their connection. She needed to learn to be vulnerable & open, he needed to continue his drive in the calm places.

Through communication, the two were able to bridge this gap. They decided to play with the extremes & work as a team on experiencing more pleasure than they had previously been able to access.

Try this exercise:

  1. When an emotional or energetic block comes up, try to watch your reaction. If possible, watch it from a 3rd party perspective. For example, you notice that you are becoming reactive, putting up a defensive wall, pulling away.
  2. Stop yourself, breath, ask yourself “What am I reacting to?”Perhaps it is the position, you have lost connection, you need a break, past conditioning, etc.
  3. Play with your extremes.
    • Knowing that she was challenged with being vulnerable, she would witness when she would put up her defenses.
    • During this time she would have self talk to see that she was safe in his arms, that she could allow him to love her, that she could become vulnerable and let this man adore her.
    • With this agreement, he could continue being masculine without pulling back when she put up her defenses.
    • Without forcing her, he could lovingly connect with her through the vulnerable places allowing for more connection vs. separation.
    • She lets down the guard and he can penetrate deeper into their connection even if it is only in holding her. This will build the intimacy, connection, trust and relationship.

    Realize where your wins can be & pursue there. In this case it was easier for the woman to let down her guard & for him to hold his masculine, than for him to be in her presence without going soft. This is where they start their agreement.

    • She gives him permission to push her buttons a bit, knowing she is safe.
    • They start here, at their place where success can be found.
      • Many couples start at the problem, this will only agitate the situation & cause separation. Imagine had they chosen for her to stay in her aggressor place, he is going soft, falling asleep, disconnected. She would probably get frustrated, take it personally, put up her defenses, jeopardize their relationship by demeaning him or his penis, it just wouldn’t work. (literally). Instead, keep it at the win.

      Find the easiest place where the two of you can meet in this difficult place & bridge the gap.

Polarity can be fun to play with, it can heighten the pleasure between partners or it can make you go limp. Let me know if you would like to know more about energy & how to have incredible sex.

If you are experiencing sexual blocks & would like help in overcoming these, check out my website at UnlockBlocks.com or contact Jeanne Lupypciw for an appointment.

    March 30, 2008 Posted by magicaljeanne | Sex | , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | 2 Comments

    Is Pain Hurting Your Sex Life? Here’s A Solution.

    High Jeanne
    I’m a male 43 yrs old I herniated a disk in my back (L4-L5 disk) for the past 3 months my left leg goes numb. I have been under a dr’s care and there is some relief with the pain . when making love to my wife I have had some discomfort and was wondering if this something that could possible for me. I am the process of starting palates and tantra. I sure could use your help. thank you

    Hi Rob,
    Thanks for your message. I would love to help you. Often the pain you experience is related to emotion or something physical that is causing your body to go into fight mode. This runs in your body, so it is difficult for it to heal. I have had great results with people overcoming chronic pain, even on my long distance phone appointments. We can figure out what is blocking your body from healing, get it out of the fight mode & get you moving in the right direction.
    The sexuality can definitely be improved, although releasing your pain seems to be the top priority. I love that you are exploring tantra & pilates, as these will help you have an even closer connection with what you are wanting to achieve.

    Thank you,
    Jeanne Lupypciw

    www.unlockblocks.com

    www.sexualtuneup.wordpress.com

    February 20, 2008 Posted by magicaljeanne | Healing, Sex | , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | No Comments Yet

    Separate orgasm from ejaculation for more pleasure? Try this exercise.

    I was asked: I would like to know a good method of “injaculating”, or having an orgasm without ejaculating.i have read that you say it is better to keep it in and get more engery. and a better feeling.
    injaculate. plz help me with this.love to try this and see how it feels.

    Hi Tim,
    Thanks for your message. There are a couple things to learn about injaculating vs ejaculating. Many men have merged orgasm with ejaculation. These occur within seconds of each other, so as a young man this gets confused in the body. To begin we need to separate ejaculation from orgasm. By doing this you will be able to have multiple orgasms (up to 9) without ejaculating? Does this sound good to you? It’s a whole body orgasm, lots of pleasure without the drain of ejaculation.

    The easiest way to start would be to build your PC muscle, which runs beneath the penis. The best way to do that is to start & stop the flow of your urine when you are peeing. To practice this week, begin peeing into toilet & stop the flow for a few seconds, then start flow again, stop & hold a few seconds. Repeat this till you are done peeing. This will start to train your muscle. Let me know how that goes for you & when you are ready for the next step.
    Take care,
    Jeanne Lupypciw
    “Unlocking Blocks To Your Highest Potential”

    www.unlockblocks.com

    http://sexualtuneup.wordpress.com/

    February 20, 2008 Posted by magicaljeanne | Sex | , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | 1 Comment